Only Allah can judge me

 

 "Only Allah can judge me." It sounds cool and all, but let’s get real about how and when it’s actually used. Because, honestly, it’s become the ultimate escape card for dodging any sort of responsibility. 🙄

 The Misuse of "Only Allah Can Judge Me"

Here’s the deal: If you’re out there flaunting the latest sin, whether it’s breaking major Islamic laws or just being a general nuisance to society, and someone steps up to offer you some advice, don’t just throw up the “Only Allah can judge me” shield. Seriously, that’s like saying, "I know I’m totally off the rails, but I’m too cool to care!" 😅

Let’s paint a picture: Imagine you’re out in public, committing serious wrongs—let’s say, committing a crime or openly ignoring your Islamic duties like Salah. Someone approaches you, kindly reminding you to pray or dress modestly. Instead of taking the advice, you respond with, “Only Allah can judge me.” Really? That’s just a way of saying, “I’d rather stay in my comfort zone, thanks!”

As Allah says in Surah Al-Ankabut (29:11), "And Allah certainly knows those who believe, and He certainly knows the hypocrites." Allah knows the intentions and actions of every individual. Hiding behind the "Only Allah can judge me" line while ignoring clear advice is not the way to go.

 When “Only Allah Can Judge Me” Makes Sense

Now, let’s be fair. There are moments when this line is more appropriate. If you’re doing everything right, striving to be the best version of yourself, and still getting hate from people who can’t see past their own biases, or if you’re being judged for your past while trying to move forward, okay—then, sure, you’ve got a point. 🌟

Surah Al-Baqarah (2:281) reminds us: "And fear the Day when you will be returned to Allah. Then every soul will be paid in full what it earned, and they will not be treated unjustly." This highlights that ultimate justice and judgment belong to Allah alone, and we should not be overly concerned with unfair criticism from others.

 The Reality Check

But let’s not confuse this with playing the victim card when you’re actually in the wrong. Using “Only Allah can judge me” to dodge legitimate advice is like using an invisibility cloak to escape your responsibilities. Allah is indeed the ultimate judge, but that doesn’t mean we get a free pass to ignore constructive criticism or societal norms.

Surah Al-Isra (17:15) states, "Whoever goes right, then he goes right only for the benefit of his own soul; and whoever goes astray, then he goes astray only to its detriment. No bearer of burdens will bear the burden of another." This reminds us of personal accountability. We cannot ignore our own faults while expecting others to stay silent.

Moreover, Allah commands us in Surah Al-Imran (3:104): "Let there arise from you a group of people inviting to all that is good, enjoining what is right, and forbidding what is wrong. And those are the successful." This verse emphasizes the responsibility of advising and guiding each other toward good and away from evil.

So next time you throw out the “Only Allah can judge me” line, maybe take a moment to reflect: Are you genuinely facing unjust criticism, or are you just trying to avoid facing some hard truths? If you’re truly committed to making things right, use the advice as a stepping stone rather than a reason to deflect. 👀

Remember, Allah knows best, but using Him as a shield for poor choices is just plain unfair. Let’s keep it real, take advice seriously, and stop hiding behind excuses. 🌟