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Cultura vs. Islam

 Let’s be real for a second. We all know mixing culture with religion can sometimes be a hot mess. But here’s the hard truth: Just because something’s a cultural norm doesn’t mean it’s worth sticking to, especially if it’s got nothing to do with Islam Islam is straightforward. It’s about following the Quran and the Sunnah, which guide us towards a balanced, healthy lifestyle. Culture? It’s often just a bunch of extra stuff piled on top of religious practices, and not always for the better. Some practices are celebrated as if they’re a big deal in Islam, but guess what? They’re not. Take, for example, celebrating the birthdays of religious figures. Newsflash: There’s no Quranic basis for these celebrations. It’s a cultural addition with zero backing from the Quran or Hadith. And then there are other non-Islamic festivals. Mixing these with your religious practices? Not cool. Islam makes it clear that adopting practices from other religions is a no-go. As mentioned in the Quran, “And...

Being Nice vs. Being Kind : Ditch the People Pleasing and Be Kind for Allah's sake

  Let’s talk about something that’s seriously misunderstood: being nice versus being kind. Here’s the tea—if you’re bending over backward to please people while ignoring what pleases Allah, you’re in for a rough ride. Why? Because people? They’re never satisfied. No matter how much you do for them, they’ll always want more. It’s like trying to fill a bottomless pit with snacks—it’s just not gonna happen. Now, if you’re doing things solely to make people happy, guess what? You’re setting yourself up for disappointment. Not only will Allah be unhappy with you for prioritizing people over Him, but people themselves will eventually be displeased too. It’s a lose-lose situation. On the flip side, if your goal is to please Allah, and you happen to displease people in the process, guess what? Allah will be pleased with you, and ironically, people might end up respecting you more. When you’re kind for the sake of Allah, you’re not seeking a gold star from everyone. You’re doing it because ...

Khadija(ra) : The heart of early islam

  When we think of role models, Khadija bint Khuwaylid (RA) stands out with unmatched grace and strength. She wasn’t just the first wife of Prophet Muhammad (SAW) but the first believer, a successful entrepreneur, and a woman of profound wisdom and kindness. Let’s journey through her life and uncover what made her truly extraordinary. The Early Life of a Trailblazer Khadija (RA) was born into a noble family in Makkah. Even before meeting the Prophet, she was renowned for her integrity, intelligence, and business acumen. As a young woman, she managed her father’s vast trade empire with remarkable skill, earning the titles “Ameerat-Quraish” (Princess of Quraish) and “al-Tahira” (the Pure One). Her business dealings were not only successful but also ethical, making her one of the wealthiest and most respected women in Makkah. This combination of wealth, respect, and unwavering moral standards set her apart in a society that often undervalued women. A Love Story That Broke Norms When K...

Escape the Haram Relationship Trap: Uni Edition

 In university, haram relationships have become very common nowadays, and they bring numerous disadvantages. Haram relationships are not acceptable in Islam and can negatively affect our lives in many ways. People involved in such relationships often experience depression, anxiety, and in extreme cases, some might even commit suicide. Additionally, there are other serious consequences. Some individuals run away from home and get married without their parents' permission, entering into wrong relationships. This can lead to harassment and other issues. In some cases, people stay in live-in relationships and might even become pregnant, leading to even more complications. Universities often host events like concerts and parties, such as fresher's parties or farewell events. It’s crucial to steer clear of these gatherings. Men may attend these events to check out women, and women might unintentionally become objects of attention. These settings, often filled with music and distracti...

Can the Quran Be Changed? A Divine Promise and Human Endeavor

  In today's world, where misinformation spreads rapidly, a pressing question arises: Can the Quran be changed? Spoiler alert: The answer is a big NO. The Quran isn’t just any book; it’s a divine message that’s been protected both by Allah and by people all around the world. First off, Allah Himself has promised to safeguard the Quran. In Surah Al-Hijr (15:9), it’s written, "Indeed, it is We who sent down the Quran and indeed, We will be its guardian." That’s a pretty solid guarantee if you ask me. But here’s the cool part – the Quran isn’t just protected by some mystical force. It’s also safe because millions of Muslims have memorized it. Yup, you heard that right. From big cities to tiny villages, young kids to elders, people know the Quran by heart word to word,  letter to letter. This means that even if someone tried to erase every physical or digital copy, the words would still live on in people’s memories. Let’s talk history for a second. During the time of the thir...

Story of Prophet Nuh (عليه السلام)

  Long after the time of Prophet Adam(عليه السلام), the people who once followed Allah's guidance began to stray. Initially, they were righteous, devoted solely to Allah. But as generations passed, they began to forget the pure monotheism of their ancestors. Iblis, ever watchful, saw his chance. He whispered to them, "Make statues of your pious ancestors. Their images will remind you of their devotion to Allah and inspire you to follow their path." The people embraced this idea, placing these statues outside their homes and places of worship, thinking they were simply honoring their forefathers. Allah says in the Quran, "And they said, 'Never leave your gods and never leave Wadd or Suwa' or Yaghuth and Ya'uq and Nasr.'" (Quran 71:23). These were the names of their righteous ancestors, whose statues they had made. As time went on, Iblis continued his cunning whispers. "Bring the statues closer," he suggested. "Place them near your p...