In a world tainted with lust and objectification, the hijab stands as a shield, protecting the queens of Islam from the gaze of those who would diminish their worth. We, as Muslim women, are cherished and dignified by Allah Himself, and the hijab serves as a visible reminder of our inherent value and honor.
Western media act like they’re all about freedom and choices, but when it’s a Muslim woman rocking her hijab or niqab, suddenly it’s like, “Oh no, poor thing, oppressed!” They don’t get it – hijabs and modest gear aren’t cheap! We choose this, and it’s our royalty, not some oppression story they keep spinning. They need to see their own hypocrisy when they shut down our choice to express our faith.
For us, wearing the hijab or abaya isn’t about being judged by appearances. It’s our crown, showing we’re queens who aren’t for just anyone. Unlike those who let anyone in, we value ourselves for who we are, not how we look or our skin tone. Society loves to judge based on looks, especially in jobs or marriages, but not for us – our hijab keeps the focus on our true worth, not superficial stuff.
Allah’s got major love for us, and the hijab’s like His gift of protection and honor. It’s our way of shouting out to the world, “Yo, we’re royalty, not just eye candy!”
So, why do I wear hijab? ‘Cause Allah said so, simple as that. It’s me showing love and respect to the one who made me and following the rules laid down in Islam.
Real queens like us aren’t accessible to just anyone. We’re selective about who gets close to us because we value our dignity and respect.
Some may argue wearing the hijab is all about being modest, right? They’re like, “why girls have to cover up!” And why not guys are told to keep their eyes low-key. It’s kinda like, “Hey, why you checking us out, dude?” But let’s be real, we can’t control everyone’s eyeballs, you know? So, wearing the hijab is sorta like putting up a shield against any unwanted stares and keeping things chill.
And don’t forget about the whole “lowering the gaze” deal, where we all gotta keep it classy and not stare at each other like we’re on display at a museum.
Allah said in quran:
Surah An-Nur (24:31): “And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and guard their private parts and not expose their adornment except that which [necessarily] appears thereof and to wrap [a portion of| their headcovers over their chests and not expose their adornment..
Surah Al-Ahzab (33:59): “O Prophet, tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to bring down over themselves [part of their outer garments. That is more suitable that they will be known and not be abused..”
However some people may argue that hijab is not an obligation upon us, then in addition to that Allah said in quran
“It is not for a believing man or a believing woman, when Allah and His Messenger have decreed a matter, that they should [thereafter] have any choice about their affair. And whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger has certainly strayed into clear error.” (Surah Al-Ahzab 33:36)
Hadith
• Narrated by Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her): “When the verse ‘That they should cast their outer garments over their bodies’ was revealed, the women of Ansar came out as if they had crows over their heads by wearing outer garments.” (Sahih al-Bukhari, Book 72, Hadith 32)
This was the reaction of women when they heard the hijab rulings, those women literally cut a big pice of cloth and shared among themselves to make hijab.
• Narrated by Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her): “The riders would pass us while we were with the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) in the state of ihram, and we would only cover our faces with our garments.” (Sahih al-Bukhari, Book 26, Hadith 670)
These references provide clear evidence from the Quran and Hadiths about the obligation of hijab in Islam, emphasizing the importance of modesty and covering for Muslim women.
dress modestly, avoiding clothing that is extravagant, flashy, or designed to show off wealth.
Hijab for Women:
According to the Quran and Hadith, hijab for women refers to the modest dress code and behavior that includes:
1. Modest Clothing: Women are required to wear clothing that covers their entire body when in the presence of non-mahram men (men who are not closely related).
2. Head Covering: The Quran mentions the covering of the head and chest with a veil or headscarf. This covering is commonly known as the “khimar” (Quran 24:31).
3. Loose-Fitting Clothing: Clothing should be loose-fitting and not revealing, concealing the body’s shape.
4. Non-Transparent Fabric: The clothing should be made of non-transparent material to ensure modesty.
5. Behavior: In addition to clothing, hijab also encompasses modest behavior, including lowering one’s gaze, speaking modestly, and avoiding unnecessary interaction with non-mahram men.
Hijab for Men:
For men, hijab primarily relates to modesty in behavior and conduct. While there is no specific requirement for men to cover their heads or bodies to the same extent as women, they are instructed to:
1. Modesty in Behavior: Men should lower their gaze and avoid staring at non-mahram women. This promotes respectful interaction and modest behavior.
2. Modest Dress: Men are encouraged to dress modestly, avoiding clothing that is extravagant, flashy, or designed to show off wealth.
3. Respectful Conduct: Men should interact respectfully with women, maintaining boundaries and avoiding inappropriate behavior.
The Symbol of Modesty, Dignity, and Devotion
In Islam, the hijab is not just a piece of clothing, but a symbol of modesty, dignity, and devotion. It serves as a reminder for women to dress modestly and maintain their self-respect. The concept of wearing a hijab is deeply rooted in the teachings of Islam and holds immense significance in our faith.
Interaction between Men and Women
When it comes to how guys and girls interact in Islam, there are some clear rules. First off, with non-close relatives, we gotta keep it respectful and modest, you know? That means no getting too cozy or friendly.
Second, we avoid those situations where guys and girls mix freely. It’s all about keeping things decent and maintaining our modesty.
And hey, guarding our gaze is big! Both guys and girls are told to lower their eyes and not stare. It’s all about respect and keeping it chill.
And here’s the PPL rule: Purposeful, Public, and Limited. That’s how we roll when we’re talking to someone who’s not a close relative. No besties, high-fives, or hugs with non-mehrams. That’s a major no-go. Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, made it clear – it’s better to hamer a nail into your head than to touch someone you shouldn’t.
When interacting with non-Mahram men, it’s important for women to maintain a straightforward tone of voice, avoiding excessive softness or cheerfulness. This helps ensure clear communication without unintentionally giving the wrong impression, in line with Islamic teachings (see Quran 33:32). The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) also advised that a woman’s voice should not be overly alluring when speaking to men who are not close relatives.
So yeah, respect and boundaries are key when it comes to interacting with the opposite gender in Islam.
The Protective Benefits of Islamic Modesty and Values.
1. Preserving Morality: Modesty, like from the Quran and Hadith, keeps us in check – our actions, words, and style. It’s our armor against losing our values and staying decent.
2. Family Ties: Rules on how we hang with non-mahrams and dressing right? They protect family bonds. No drama with others means more love and less drama.
3. Respect and Dignity: Hijab isn’t just a cover; it’s respect. Women are less likely to be treated as just looks, so they stay safe and respected.
4. Avoiding Temptation: We lower our eyes and keep it modest to stay clear of trouble. Staying focused on what matters and avoiding the bad stuff.
5. Nice Interactions: Modesty means we respect each other, no awkward vibes. Keeps things smooth and chill, less drama, more respect.
6. Getting Spiritually Strong: Quran and Hadith? They’re like our GPS for a strong soul. Helps us stay strong and connected to what we believe.
7. Sticking Together: When we live these values, we build a squad of peeps who get it. Support and safety in numbers, keeping our vibe strong.
8. Faith First: It’s not just about rules; it’s a duty we’re down for. Keeps us safe and guided when things get real.
9. Being Us: These values? They’re like our ID. Keeps our community tight and strong, even when things get wild out there.
That’s the lowdown – staying true to what matters, keeping it real, and protecting what’s ours in a world that’s always buzzing.
Great work Aisha
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